"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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'Facebook Stalking'

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People at Uni seem to have engaged in 'Facebook stalking' where they will somehow find out the name of a HB and check out all her pictures. Or they might talk to her once then add her to FB, please don't do this in my opinion it is a totally AFC thing to do. On the other hand, don't read too much into it if you've been added by a nice looking girl, it does your confidence some good but it doesn't mean she wants you to knock her back doors in.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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this entire post is about 98% truth :up:

There is nothing morally wrong with facebook stalking, and no one else will likely know that you did it. But tantalizing yourself with girls online will likely degrade your soul and make you a lesser man
 

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I think the curiosity is there (I'm guilty to it) but think it's not at all what an alpha male would do. The girls would add him to their friends list.
 

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I'm such a facebook stalker! But I don't add people I don't know. So I guess that would mean I only stalk my friends...hmmm. That, and people with public profiles.
 

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imo, everyone (male or female) who makes their facebook profile non-public is a complete p*ssy and loser and a waste of oxygen on this planet :mad:


seriously, what harm is gonna come from allowing other people at your college to view your profile -- unless you've posted a bunch of naked pictures of yourself that you're afraid will get you expelled or something
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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