I just wanted to post this technique that I've used and am trying to finetune to pick up women on facebook. I look at other peoples friends list and message any girl who may be attractive saying whats up or whats good. I send this out to maybe like 50 girls or so. Then I just wait for the replies and let the interested girls reply and take it from there. Any good ideas on how to finetune this or take the next steps? Normally, I wind up meeting the real interested girls because they make it easy. One thing that may work is this new line I used this morning to get this cute girls number by saying "that she looks like she'd be cool to chill with and we should get together during the break. Give me your number and I'll let you know whatsup". I've been able to meet around 25 girls so far, but I want to perfect this. Lets make this into a good facebook pickup thread.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hockey Playa
Master Don Juan
dont do this, i did when firstbook first came out, pretty much backfired on me...it came across as creepy , and needy, and gave the girls the wrong impression of me....... a person with high value, would not go out of their way to msg random ppl on facebook....
Interceptor
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MightyMate
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Sending msg 'Whats good' to 50 girls is not a technique hahah
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
seriously, this works, only in other countries
i just got back from south america. i met tons of girls like this there on myspace. i just tell them i am traveling alone and ask them if they want to meet up. a white guy in south america=mucho vagina. it was great, i highly recommedn doing something like this if you visit brazil, iceland, south africa or anywhere. just message them just to say hi and if they want to hang out, and most likely, every girl will coz you are from a different country
i just got back from south america. i met tons of girls like this there on myspace. i just tell them i am traveling alone and ask them if they want to meet up. a white guy in south america=mucho vagina. it was great, i highly recommedn doing something like this if you visit brazil, iceland, south africa or anywhere. just message them just to say hi and if they want to hang out, and most likely, every girl will coz you are from a different country
I've actually met a few cool people on facebook poker, it's pretty chill and you see their picture already. When you log on, you can see what friends are playing and join their table. And, it's not as creepy as sending out a hundred messages to random people.
You have the right idea.Hockey Playa said:
Now seeded correctly, a random message may work. But REMEMBER Facebook is all about closed networks, these people actually know each other in person. Send to too many girls and they will expose you. I've seen it happen and it wasn't pretty.
Just be cool and always DHV, which is the rule of thumb online.
Ask yourself "Would a guy laying a bunch of chicks do this?" before you do anything.
Nygard
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Send pickup lines wherever you want. That's not going to improve yourself in any way possible.
Ah! and...
I have swedish ascendency and take a look at my location. Am I geting laid? nope.
Ah! and...
Have fun with the AIDS. You will only get it from hookers if you think like that.
I have swedish ascendency and take a look at my location. Am I geting laid? nope.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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The 'technique' that works best for me is to actually meet girls in person through friends or at work or school and THEN hit them up on facebook/myspace. It's a pretty good way to filter out the flakey ones too.
facebook is the internet. unless you can travel dont use it. depends on what you want, ltr or ons. its 100 times better if you ask in person, not online. the way you look into a girls eyes when you ask her for a number will beat facebook approaches.
In some ways this is true, but in reality, you could easily say the same thing about cold approaches. A guy with options doesn't go out of his way to pick up chicks at all. So I'm not really sure why sending out mass facebook greetings is such a bad idea. You really think the girls are going to gossip about you and give you a reputation as a "creepy" guyseveral forum participants said:
just because you said "what's up" to a bunch of them? I mean, so what if they do? Girls are always stupid with that kind of nonsense anyway. If you hit on girls and they don't reciprocate the attraction for whatever reason, you are "creepy." :yawn:There is something to be said for the closed environment effect, however. Pook says that it's not a good idea to hit on girls at work or at school because you are part of a small population and you will come across as either 1) desperate or 2) a player. Neither one of those is ideal. So your facebook strategy will probably work best at large state schools, where the girls don't all know each other. That way they'll think you don't routinely hit on girls.
Dman are you familiar with this blog: http://socialrockstar.blogspot.com/
Lots of info there on myspace gaming which will probably work on facebook as well.
Lots of info there on myspace gaming which will probably work on facebook as well.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Just wanted to add that facebook is way better than myspace for this. This summer i met about 5 or 6 girls in about a month doing this while myspace I dont even get many responses. The facebook pickup works good for me because I have the looks but lack the approaching skills. But hey its a numbers game the more girls you message the more girls u'll get
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.