I just wanted to post this technique that I've used and am trying to finetune to pick up women on facebook. I look at other peoples friends list and message any girl who may be attractive saying whats up or whats good. I send this out to maybe like 50 girls or so. Then I just wait for the replies and let the interested girls reply and take it from there. Any good ideas on how to finetune this or take the next steps? Normally, I wind up meeting the real interested girls because they make it easy. One thing that may work is this new line I used this morning to get this cute girls number by saying "that she looks like she'd be cool to chill with and we should get together during the break. Give me your number and I'll let you know whatsup". I've been able to meet around 25 girls so far, but I want to perfect this. Lets make this into a good facebook pickup thread.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Facebook pickups technique. must read
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Hockey Playa
Master Don Juan
dont do this, i did when firstbook first came out, pretty much backfired on me...it came across as creepy , and needy, and gave the girls the wrong impression of me....... a person with high value, would not go out of their way to msg random ppl on facebook....
Interceptor
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MightyMate
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Sending msg 'Whats good' to 50 girls is not a technique hahah
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
seriously, this works, only in other countries
i just got back from south america. i met tons of girls like this there on myspace. i just tell them i am traveling alone and ask them if they want to meet up. a white guy in south america=mucho vagina. it was great, i highly recommedn doing something like this if you visit brazil, iceland, south africa or anywhere. just message them just to say hi and if they want to hang out, and most likely, every girl will coz you are from a different country
i just got back from south america. i met tons of girls like this there on myspace. i just tell them i am traveling alone and ask them if they want to meet up. a white guy in south america=mucho vagina. it was great, i highly recommedn doing something like this if you visit brazil, iceland, south africa or anywhere. just message them just to say hi and if they want to hang out, and most likely, every girl will coz you are from a different country
I've actually met a few cool people on facebook poker, it's pretty chill and you see their picture already. When you log on, you can see what friends are playing and join their table. And, it's not as creepy as sending out a hundred messages to random people.
You have the right idea.Hockey Playa said:
Now seeded correctly, a random message may work. But REMEMBER Facebook is all about closed networks, these people actually know each other in person. Send to too many girls and they will expose you. I've seen it happen and it wasn't pretty.
Just be cool and always DHV, which is the rule of thumb online.
Ask yourself "Would a guy laying a bunch of chicks do this?" before you do anything.
Nygard
Senior Don Juan
Send pickup lines wherever you want. That's not going to improve yourself in any way possible.
Ah! and...
I have swedish ascendency and take a look at my location. Am I geting laid? nope.
Ah! and...
Have fun with the AIDS. You will only get it from hookers if you think like that.
I have swedish ascendency and take a look at my location. Am I geting laid? nope.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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The 'technique' that works best for me is to actually meet girls in person through friends or at work or school and THEN hit them up on facebook/myspace. It's a pretty good way to filter out the flakey ones too.
facebook is the internet. unless you can travel dont use it. depends on what you want, ltr or ons. its 100 times better if you ask in person, not online. the way you look into a girls eyes when you ask her for a number will beat facebook approaches.
In some ways this is true, but in reality, you could easily say the same thing about cold approaches. A guy with options doesn't go out of his way to pick up chicks at all. So I'm not really sure why sending out mass facebook greetings is such a bad idea. You really think the girls are going to gossip about you and give you a reputation as a "creepy" guyseveral forum participants said:
just because you said "what's up" to a bunch of them? I mean, so what if they do? Girls are always stupid with that kind of nonsense anyway. If you hit on girls and they don't reciprocate the attraction for whatever reason, you are "creepy." :yawn:There is something to be said for the closed environment effect, however. Pook says that it's not a good idea to hit on girls at work or at school because you are part of a small population and you will come across as either 1) desperate or 2) a player. Neither one of those is ideal. So your facebook strategy will probably work best at large state schools, where the girls don't all know each other. That way they'll think you don't routinely hit on girls.
Dman are you familiar with this blog: http://socialrockstar.blogspot.com/
Lots of info there on myspace gaming which will probably work on facebook as well.
Lots of info there on myspace gaming which will probably work on facebook as well.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Just wanted to add that facebook is way better than myspace for this. This summer i met about 5 or 6 girls in about a month doing this while myspace I dont even get many responses. The facebook pickup works good for me because I have the looks but lack the approaching skills. But hey its a numbers game the more girls you message the more girls u'll get
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.