timmylivingalie
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Anybody got a good opener for a late 40's hb8 on facebook? I do not the woman at all.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Facebook opener?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
expos
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Man...I don't know...timmylivingalie said:
I think generally Facebook is bad place to try to make a move on a woman. I tried only once and it didn't work out and left me feeling creepy, so I vowed never to do it again...no matter how hot the prospect.
Facebook profiles are generally a person's virtual turf. It's not their dating profile. I almost equate it to walking onto someone's property, knocking on their door, and flirting with them completely out of the blue.
Do you not know any of the people she is friends with? If not, you have no way in unless you really want to reach out - but prepared to be rejected or possibly blocked.
Put it this way, I'd be even leary of a women Facebook messaging me. That takes a lot of effort and I be very concerned of the motive.
Sorry man...I just don't think it's worth it.
tryst type
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I agree with expos, I used to try gaming chicks on fb and its a VERY slippery slope into being called/classified as a creepy guy. Not to mention if she knows people you do she'll most certainly inform them and embellish it only to make you come off as a creep even more.
If you must though, the safest and most inconspicuous way is to send a friend request and then a message saying something like "I thought you were someone else I know, now I'm confused.. Have we met?"
Gauge her response and act accordingly.
If you must though, the safest and most inconspicuous way is to send a friend request and then a message saying something like "I thought you were someone else I know, now I'm confused.. Have we met?"
Gauge her response and act accordingly.
plate's_empty
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Try the High School forum, they'll probably know.
speed dawg
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^^ This.plate's_empty said:
Facebook? Seriously? Get this weak sh*t outta here.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.