timmylivingalie
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Anybody got a good opener for a late 40's hb8 on facebook? I do not the woman at all.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Facebook opener?
- Thread starter timmylivingalie
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
expos
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Man...I don't know...timmylivingalie said:
I think generally Facebook is bad place to try to make a move on a woman. I tried only once and it didn't work out and left me feeling creepy, so I vowed never to do it again...no matter how hot the prospect.
Facebook profiles are generally a person's virtual turf. It's not their dating profile. I almost equate it to walking onto someone's property, knocking on their door, and flirting with them completely out of the blue.
Do you not know any of the people she is friends with? If not, you have no way in unless you really want to reach out - but prepared to be rejected or possibly blocked.
Put it this way, I'd be even leary of a women Facebook messaging me. That takes a lot of effort and I be very concerned of the motive.
Sorry man...I just don't think it's worth it.
tryst type
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I agree with expos, I used to try gaming chicks on fb and its a VERY slippery slope into being called/classified as a creepy guy. Not to mention if she knows people you do she'll most certainly inform them and embellish it only to make you come off as a creep even more.
If you must though, the safest and most inconspicuous way is to send a friend request and then a message saying something like "I thought you were someone else I know, now I'm confused.. Have we met?"
Gauge her response and act accordingly.
If you must though, the safest and most inconspicuous way is to send a friend request and then a message saying something like "I thought you were someone else I know, now I'm confused.. Have we met?"
Gauge her response and act accordingly.
plate's_empty
Senior Don Juan
Try the High School forum, they'll probably know.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
^^ This.plate's_empty said:
Facebook? Seriously? Get this weak sh*t outta here.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.