"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys,

First of all; cool to be part of the community!

About this topic there has been said a lot of things, I know that.
But I figured that high school girls might have a different reaction. So, the dreadful story: I randomly added a absolute HB10+! She accepted the friend request, and I was wondering myself where to go from now, assuming she got a lot of boys that send her stuff like hey what's up.

Thanks already!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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BPH's right. Facebook and texting are the side dishes on the main course of life. Face-to-face is where it's at. Malls + strangers make a great combination if you feel your face-to-face skills are lacking.
 
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Closing on FB is actually really, really easy for me. Probably easier than face to face for me.

Sure face to face is way better, but doesnt mean you cant close over facebook. Just be funny and interesting, make her laugh and be different from everyone else. And don't spend hours talking to her, be the first to leave the conversation.
 
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smithersonb11 said:
Closing on FB is actually really, really easy for me. Probably easier than face to face for me.

Sure face to face is way better, but doesnt mean you cant close over facebook. Just be funny and interesting, make her laugh and be different from everyone else. And don't spend hours talking to her, be the first to leave the conversation.
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Have you fu**ed any of these women that you "closed"?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Sure meeting irl is pretty easy, but I would just like to hear some strategies/experiences from you guys haha. But still @smith, what would be a good opener then?
 
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yup i could say something like hey what's up. but she gets that all the time
 
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How do you know that? They really don't get direct and sincere often, the girls I talk to that do usually hang out with black guys. Black guys go ultra direct fairly often and get laid lots. Be a black version of you.

Or, less racist, be sincere.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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haha thanks guys, and yes it was just an experiment. looks like a pretty cool forum
 
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