"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey guys,

First of all; cool to be part of the community!

About this topic there has been said a lot of things, I know that.
But I figured that high school girls might have a different reaction. So, the dreadful story: I randomly added a absolute HB10+! She accepted the friend request, and I was wondering myself where to go from now, assuming she got a lot of boys that send her stuff like hey what's up.

Thanks already!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BPH's right. Facebook and texting are the side dishes on the main course of life. Face-to-face is where it's at. Malls + strangers make a great combination if you feel your face-to-face skills are lacking.
 
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Closing on FB is actually really, really easy for me. Probably easier than face to face for me.

Sure face to face is way better, but doesnt mean you cant close over facebook. Just be funny and interesting, make her laugh and be different from everyone else. And don't spend hours talking to her, be the first to leave the conversation.
 
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smithersonb11 said:
Closing on FB is actually really, really easy for me. Probably easier than face to face for me.

Sure face to face is way better, but doesnt mean you cant close over facebook. Just be funny and interesting, make her laugh and be different from everyone else. And don't spend hours talking to her, be the first to leave the conversation.
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Have you fu**ed any of these women that you "closed"?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sure meeting irl is pretty easy, but I would just like to hear some strategies/experiences from you guys haha. But still @smith, what would be a good opener then?
 
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yup i could say something like hey what's up. but she gets that all the time
 
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How do you know that? They really don't get direct and sincere often, the girls I talk to that do usually hang out with black guys. Black guys go ultra direct fairly often and get laid lots. Be a black version of you.

Or, less racist, be sincere.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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haha thanks guys, and yes it was just an experiment. looks like a pretty cool forum
 
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