"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hey guys,

First of all; cool to be part of the community!

About this topic there has been said a lot of things, I know that.
But I figured that high school girls might have a different reaction. So, the dreadful story: I randomly added a absolute HB10+! She accepted the friend request, and I was wondering myself where to go from now, assuming she got a lot of boys that send her stuff like hey what's up.

Thanks already!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BPH's right. Facebook and texting are the side dishes on the main course of life. Face-to-face is where it's at. Malls + strangers make a great combination if you feel your face-to-face skills are lacking.
 
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Closing on FB is actually really, really easy for me. Probably easier than face to face for me.

Sure face to face is way better, but doesnt mean you cant close over facebook. Just be funny and interesting, make her laugh and be different from everyone else. And don't spend hours talking to her, be the first to leave the conversation.
 
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smithersonb11 said:
Closing on FB is actually really, really easy for me. Probably easier than face to face for me.

Sure face to face is way better, but doesnt mean you cant close over facebook. Just be funny and interesting, make her laugh and be different from everyone else. And don't spend hours talking to her, be the first to leave the conversation.
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Have you fu**ed any of these women that you "closed"?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sure meeting irl is pretty easy, but I would just like to hear some strategies/experiences from you guys haha. But still @smith, what would be a good opener then?
 
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yup i could say something like hey what's up. but she gets that all the time
 
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How do you know that? They really don't get direct and sincere often, the girls I talk to that do usually hang out with black guys. Black guys go ultra direct fairly often and get laid lots. Be a black version of you.

Or, less racist, be sincere.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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haha thanks guys, and yes it was just an experiment. looks like a pretty cool forum
 
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