"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey guys,

First of all; cool to be part of the community!

About this topic there has been said a lot of things, I know that.
But I figured that high school girls might have a different reaction. So, the dreadful story: I randomly added a absolute HB10+! She accepted the friend request, and I was wondering myself where to go from now, assuming she got a lot of boys that send her stuff like hey what's up.

Thanks already!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BPH's right. Facebook and texting are the side dishes on the main course of life. Face-to-face is where it's at. Malls + strangers make a great combination if you feel your face-to-face skills are lacking.
 

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Closing on FB is actually really, really easy for me. Probably easier than face to face for me.

Sure face to face is way better, but doesnt mean you cant close over facebook. Just be funny and interesting, make her laugh and be different from everyone else. And don't spend hours talking to her, be the first to leave the conversation.
 

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smithersonb11 said:
Closing on FB is actually really, really easy for me. Probably easier than face to face for me.

Sure face to face is way better, but doesnt mean you cant close over facebook. Just be funny and interesting, make her laugh and be different from everyone else. And don't spend hours talking to her, be the first to leave the conversation.
Have you fu**ed any of these women that you "closed"?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sure meeting irl is pretty easy, but I would just like to hear some strategies/experiences from you guys haha. But still @smith, what would be a good opener then?
 

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yup i could say something like hey what's up. but she gets that all the time
 

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How do you know that? They really don't get direct and sincere often, the girls I talk to that do usually hang out with black guys. Black guys go ultra direct fairly often and get laid lots. Be a black version of you.

Or, less racist, be sincere.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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haha thanks guys, and yes it was just an experiment. looks like a pretty cool forum
 
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