"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Random HB8 ive never seen before messages me on facebook..


"I know you from somewhere.."

So i figured why not try to facebook game.. but ive never done this before so

what should i reply with? Anyone ever deal with this before?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Its the same as any situation. Are you normally good with women? The positives are that you can take your time in replying. She is interested, thats why she contacted you.


Always ask a few questions because it keeps the messages flowing and she has something to reply to.
 
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Yeah i told her "im a underwear model .. she probably saw me on the boxes.." jokingly.
 
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No man. You're being a smart azz. She already showed interest. Just qualify her. Make her talk about herself and qualify her.. she already put you in the high status seat.. don't abuse it.
 
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lol that's a very good answer, you clearly get it.

after you laugh it off, ask her about where she could possibly see you

keep it completely normal and conversational, then tell her what you're going to do tonight/this weekend.

unless she's REALLY interested, considering she's an 8, don't invite her anywhere just yet, make her feel like you're a guy she wants to be around...

if that works out - let me know further
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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