"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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falcon814

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Random HB8 ive never seen before messages me on facebook..


"I know you from somewhere.."

So i figured why not try to facebook game.. but ive never done this before so

what should i reply with? Anyone ever deal with this before?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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slaog

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Its the same as any situation. Are you normally good with women? The positives are that you can take your time in replying. She is interested, thats why she contacted you.


Always ask a few questions because it keeps the messages flowing and she has something to reply to.
 

falcon814

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Yeah i told her "im a underwear model .. she probably saw me on the boxes.." jokingly.
 

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No man. You're being a smart azz. She already showed interest. Just qualify her. Make her talk about herself and qualify her.. she already put you in the high status seat.. don't abuse it.
 

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lol that's a very good answer, you clearly get it.

after you laugh it off, ask her about where she could possibly see you

keep it completely normal and conversational, then tell her what you're going to do tonight/this weekend.

unless she's REALLY interested, considering she's an 8, don't invite her anywhere just yet, make her feel like you're a guy she wants to be around...

if that works out - let me know further
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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