"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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falcon814

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Random HB8 ive never seen before messages me on facebook..


"I know you from somewhere.."

So i figured why not try to facebook game.. but ive never done this before so

what should i reply with? Anyone ever deal with this before?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Its the same as any situation. Are you normally good with women? The positives are that you can take your time in replying. She is interested, thats why she contacted you.


Always ask a few questions because it keeps the messages flowing and she has something to reply to.
 
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Yeah i told her "im a underwear model .. she probably saw me on the boxes.." jokingly.
 
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No man. You're being a smart azz. She already showed interest. Just qualify her. Make her talk about herself and qualify her.. she already put you in the high status seat.. don't abuse it.
 
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lol that's a very good answer, you clearly get it.

after you laugh it off, ask her about where she could possibly see you

keep it completely normal and conversational, then tell her what you're going to do tonight/this weekend.

unless she's REALLY interested, considering she's an 8, don't invite her anywhere just yet, make her feel like you're a guy she wants to be around...

if that works out - let me know further
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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