"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Facebook girl who livea across street: APPROACH

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MAN_OF_TOMMOROW

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Just been going through a list of friends on my Facebook list and noticed the girl who lives across the street from me, literally.

We've said Hi and Bye, little interaction. How should I approach her?, We both find eachother attractive, just from some of the things she's done to get MY attention and vice versa.

How should I go about approaching this? In a Funny/joking way or . . . .

NEED ADVICE ASAP PLEASE as she's currently ONLINE CHAT-LOG. An example of things to say would be great. .

Thanks Bros. . .:up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Commandante

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That´s an easy question. Log off, go across the street, knock on her door and take her out for a drink/coffee/ice whatever.

And forget fakebook.
 
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She_feelin_Me

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Next time you see her outside speak and wave her over...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Connor99

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Are you kidding me ??? She lives across the street and you're talking to her via computer on Facebook ??? Really ?????

**** the computer.....When you see her outside just cross the street and talk to her...invite her over for some beers and chill in the back yard or balcony or whatever. She will be more impressed if you strike up a conversation in person

you will seem like a ***** if you do this online when she's across the ****ing street lol

Good luck though....You will have it made if whatever you do works out
 
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I used to use AIM to communicate with college roommates. It was easier then speaking. :p

Dude, if you know she's in to you, you could go totally chiche and still nail it. Knock on her door, ask to borrow a cup of sugar. :p


If she's online, tell her to step outside for a second.
 
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