"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Facebook girl who livea across street: APPROACH

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MAN_OF_TOMMOROW

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Just been going through a list of friends on my Facebook list and noticed the girl who lives across the street from me, literally.

We've said Hi and Bye, little interaction. How should I approach her?, We both find eachother attractive, just from some of the things she's done to get MY attention and vice versa.

How should I go about approaching this? In a Funny/joking way or . . . .

NEED ADVICE ASAP PLEASE as she's currently ONLINE CHAT-LOG. An example of things to say would be great. .

Thanks Bros. . .:up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Commandante

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That´s an easy question. Log off, go across the street, knock on her door and take her out for a drink/coffee/ice whatever.

And forget fakebook.
 
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She_feelin_Me

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Next time you see her outside speak and wave her over...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are you kidding me ??? She lives across the street and you're talking to her via computer on Facebook ??? Really ?????

**** the computer.....When you see her outside just cross the street and talk to her...invite her over for some beers and chill in the back yard or balcony or whatever. She will be more impressed if you strike up a conversation in person

you will seem like a ***** if you do this online when she's across the ****ing street lol

Good luck though....You will have it made if whatever you do works out
 
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I used to use AIM to communicate with college roommates. It was easier then speaking. :p

Dude, if you know she's in to you, you could go totally chiche and still nail it. Knock on her door, ask to borrow a cup of sugar. :p


If she's online, tell her to step outside for a second.
 
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