"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Facebook girl who livea across street: APPROACH

MAN_OF_TOMMOROW

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Just been going through a list of friends on my Facebook list and noticed the girl who lives across the street from me, literally.

We've said Hi and Bye, little interaction. How should I approach her?, We both find eachother attractive, just from some of the things she's done to get MY attention and vice versa.

How should I go about approaching this? In a Funny/joking way or . . . .

NEED ADVICE ASAP PLEASE as she's currently ONLINE CHAT-LOG. An example of things to say would be great. .

Thanks Bros. . .:up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Commandante

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That´s an easy question. Log off, go across the street, knock on her door and take her out for a drink/coffee/ice whatever.

And forget fakebook.
 

She_feelin_Me

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Next time you see her outside speak and wave her over...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Connor99

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Are you kidding me ??? She lives across the street and you're talking to her via computer on Facebook ??? Really ?????

**** the computer.....When you see her outside just cross the street and talk to her...invite her over for some beers and chill in the back yard or balcony or whatever. She will be more impressed if you strike up a conversation in person

you will seem like a ***** if you do this online when she's across the ****ing street lol

Good luck though....You will have it made if whatever you do works out
 

scrouds

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I used to use AIM to communicate with college roommates. It was easier then speaking. :p

Dude, if you know she's in to you, you could go totally chiche and still nail it. Knock on her door, ask to borrow a cup of sugar. :p


If she's online, tell her to step outside for a second.
 
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