You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I dont got a car anymore bro, haha. I gotta figure something out when im not relying on my friends.Iceberg said:This Facebook stuff kills me. I've never done online dating, but if Facebook were at least a dating site, I could understand. But it's a social networking site.
Let's get this straight...So first you find the girl you like, then you become her "friend" (so you're already in the friend zone)....then she reads your interesting and alluring profile...the same one that your aunts, uncles, and coworkers read (as Facebook is NOT a dating site), and yet somehow thru all this, your girl is supposed to be so thrilled with you that she wants to meet you and date you.
Nothing personal, if this is your thing and you know how to make it work, more power to you. It just seems like it'll take months of conversation to build the level of interest that you could get from one encounter in a coffee shop, gym, bar, or bookstore with a real woman face-to-face.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
No prob broParadox said:Thanks for the guide. I was going to ask the posters to write one.
This is a great recap of what online DJ's have been saying.
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