"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hit her up and ask her to take out for some drinks. Alcohol leads to lower inhibition. Taking her out to dinner or movies or what the fvck ever is a waste of cash...sum broads are serial daters..just want a free meal.If shes pushin for a "traditional date" you got your answer.
The first step in the sequence of events is to add her to my Facebook. Then, who breaks the ice? Her or I? I know what to say but I am abstaining for now
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hit her up and ask her to take out for some drinks. Alcohol leads to lower inhibition. Taking her out to dinner or movies or what the fvck ever is a waste of cash...sum broads are serial daters..just want a free meal.If shes pushin for a "traditional date" you got your answer.
My concern with the pics is one. I also have pics of my ex-es and when I save them is because of 1 reason, I like them and I wish i could turn things around for a least a night stand. If I don't like a former girlfriend, I distance myself the fvck away from the bytch, but looking at her from my very own spectrum, I can tell she stills likes him.
 

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The first step in the sequence of events is to add her to my Facebook. Then, who breaks the ice? Her or I? I know what to say but I am abstaining for now
Break the ice by asking if having unprotected sex is worth the 20 years of stress, hassle and monetary losses. If she says yes, then invite her over to make another one.
 

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My concern with the pics is one. I also have pics of my ex-es and when I save them is because of 1 reason, I like them and I wish i could turn things around for a least a night stand. If I don't like a former girlfriend, I distance myself the fvck away from the bytch, but looking at her from my very own spectrum, I can tell she stills likes him.
Fvck her ex and the horse he rode in on. We are focusing too much on dude and not you placin your penis in her vagina..see if she repsonds to a instant message from you..if she does, keep the ball rollin..the ex is a problem for future you (if you decide to keep her around)
 

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Fvck her ex and the horse he rode in on. We are focusing too much on dude and not you placin your penis in her vagina..see if she repsonds to a instant message from you..if she does, keep the ball rollin..the ex is a problem for future you (if you decide to keep her around)
Should I add her to my Facebook or just PM her on messenger? I am contemplating an issue in here, we do not know each other and online **** is impersonal. I dont like the idea of adding her. I actually don't jave my real name on Facebook, but my profile is a name that is something way different than even a proper name and a commun name and a name of guerre. My profile is not to be found by some1 other than the people I send friend invitations. Most are family and very close friends, no coworkers or distant friends.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Break the ice by asking if having unprotected sex is worth the 20 years of stress, hassle and monetary losses. If she says yes, then invite her over to make another one.
That won't work. I dont meet people online, but in real life.
 

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Why so much hamstering over a girl? Just do it and see what happens.
 

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The first step in the sequence of events is to add her to my Facebook. Then, who breaks the ice? Her or I? I know what to say but I am abstaining for now
Really? What's up with all this feminine hamstering.
You say you're just looking to bang her, then why do you overanalyze why she has some pictures on her fb and what that potentially means. This is irrelevant if you're looking for what you say you're. Hit her straight up, set a date and take it from there. Anything but a yes you move on and spend your time on someone else.

This overthinking makes me think you're potentially looking for something more than a bang since humans tend to do that when we feel more is on the line. Be honest with yourself.
 

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I tell women, "I don't friend people I haven't met in real life." If you don't have any friends in common, I'd be real suspicious.

High likelihood it's a hijacked profile and a bot scammer.
 

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I tell women, "I don't friend people I haven't met in real life." If you don't have any friends in common, I'd be real suspicious.

High likelihood it's a hijacked profile and a bot scammer.
Dont look like it. She looks local and not from Russia or Ukraine. I don't believe it is a Nigerian scam either. Too many things in place.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Really? What's up with all this feminine hamstering.
You say you're just looking to bang her, then why do you overanalyze why she has some pictures on her fb and what that potentially means. This is irrelevant if you're looking for what you say you're. Hit her straight up, set a date and take it from there. Anything but a yes you move on and spend your time on someone else.

This overthinking makes me think you're potentially looking for something more than a bang since humans tend to do that when we feel more is on the line. Be honest with yourself.
I don't know what She wants. She is not a slut, although it looks like she kind of like on the fast lane. She may want a long term and I need yo come across her like what she is looking for and then see you baby, bye bye.
 

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Way overthinking this man.

All of these hypotheticals you are analyzing and she could ghost you from the get go.

Stop wasting time. Tell her to join you sometime and go from there.
 
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