"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Facebook Dating... WTF???

wifehunter

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As If things weren't already stupid enough, here it comes....

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Without watching FB's latest advert, I'll go out on a limb and admit that all of the online dating I've done, years ago now, was through FB messenger. And none of it worth a damn.

You can tell a lot about a girl from her FB page, the amount of orbiters throwing her supplication and the amount of camwhòre shots she has. Checking for male friends in common is particularly revealing. Chances are, she's slept with a few.

FB is a tool for gauging a woman's quality. No more, no less.
 

taiyuu_otoko

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Fvcking A right. I slay on FB/Messenger, especially with the 20 somethings. Been saying FB is the new old for awhile now. Now, if they would only make a party feature, where you don't have to send out mass invites on Messenger or blast it on FB.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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They're definitely jumping the shark now. Online dating ran it's course years ago and all these sites should be put out to pasture.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Without watching FB's latest advert, I'll go out on a limb and admit that all of the online dating I've done, years ago now, was through FB messenger. And none of it worth a damn.

You can tell a lot about a girl from her FB page, the amount of orbiters throwing her supplication and the amount of camwhòre shots she has. Checking for male friends in common is particularly revealing. Chances are, she's slept with a few.

FB is a tool for gauging a woman's quality. No more, no less.
Take note of those that has tons of FB/IG uploads and imbalance likes - males.

If you do wish to tangle urself, make a quick profit and eject lest you'd be entangled like those other orbiters.
 
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