"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FACEBOOK Attention Grabber

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HELP!

There is this hot girl on FB. I use to know her but we fell out of touch years ago, probably around 10. (She was my sisters friend growing up) I know that people on this board have mixed feelings about using FB but its the only way I know to contact her!

What should I say when I send her a message? I know how to say hello. But what should I say to make her want to reply back?


Thanks!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheSmokingGun said:
HELP!

There is this hot girl on FB. I use to know her but we fell out of touch years ago, probably around 10. (She was my sisters friend growing up) I know that people on this board have mixed feelings about using FB but its the only way I know to contact her!

What should I say when I send her a message? I know how to say hello. But what should I say to make her want to reply back?


Thanks!
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WOW!!! Your post wreaks of extreme desperation!!!! If you must use crapbook for hookup, use the kiss method. KEEP IT SIMPLE STUPID. Why stress it? Just say, "Hey, long time no see, how have you been, blah blah blah blah!

I am generally against facebook for hooking up unless you can be cool, creative and fun about it. Easy with your desperate tone.
 
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Why not just PM her with something like "hey, are you the same (insert name here) that I knew when I was a kid."
 
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