"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HELP!

There is this hot girl on FB. I use to know her but we fell out of touch years ago, probably around 10. (She was my sisters friend growing up) I know that people on this board have mixed feelings about using FB but its the only way I know to contact her!

What should I say when I send her a message? I know how to say hello. But what should I say to make her want to reply back?


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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheSmokingGun said:
HELP!

There is this hot girl on FB. I use to know her but we fell out of touch years ago, probably around 10. (She was my sisters friend growing up) I know that people on this board have mixed feelings about using FB but its the only way I know to contact her!

What should I say when I send her a message? I know how to say hello. But what should I say to make her want to reply back?


Thanks!
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WOW!!! Your post wreaks of extreme desperation!!!! If you must use crapbook for hookup, use the kiss method. KEEP IT SIMPLE STUPID. Why stress it? Just say, "Hey, long time no see, how have you been, blah blah blah blah!

I am generally against facebook for hooking up unless you can be cool, creative and fun about it. Easy with your desperate tone.
 
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Why not just PM her with something like "hey, are you the same (insert name here) that I knew when I was a kid."
 
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