"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FACEBOOK Attention Grabber

TheSmokingGun

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HELP!

There is this hot girl on FB. I use to know her but we fell out of touch years ago, probably around 10. (She was my sisters friend growing up) I know that people on this board have mixed feelings about using FB but its the only way I know to contact her!

What should I say when I send her a message? I know how to say hello. But what should I say to make her want to reply back?


Thanks!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SoldMySoul

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TheSmokingGun said:
HELP!

There is this hot girl on FB. I use to know her but we fell out of touch years ago, probably around 10. (She was my sisters friend growing up) I know that people on this board have mixed feelings about using FB but its the only way I know to contact her!

What should I say when I send her a message? I know how to say hello. But what should I say to make her want to reply back?


Thanks!
WOW!!! Your post wreaks of extreme desperation!!!! If you must use crapbook for hookup, use the kiss method. KEEP IT SIMPLE STUPID. Why stress it? Just say, "Hey, long time no see, how have you been, blah blah blah blah!

I am generally against facebook for hooking up unless you can be cool, creative and fun about it. Easy with your desperate tone.
 

KillShot

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Why not just PM her with something like "hey, are you the same (insert name here) that I knew when I was a kid."
 
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