"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Face or Body

Which girl would you rather have as your gf?


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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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spaceman2001

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The face to me is super important. I would take a pretty face over ass and boobs.

A pretty face and a good personality is what I look for, as long as she isn't overweight.
 

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Save the whales and harpoon the fat chics.

Good body with cute face.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Drum&Bass

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I had this same talk with a female friend of mine...A HOT BODY IS WAYY BETTER, you can enjoy a girls body, its something that is real !

Everyone likes a pretty face to look at but imagine a pretty face with a scrawny or overweight body you'll have bad sex but a nice face smiling back at you, plus all you can do is kiss the lips on a face..if you got a pretty face or an ugly face the kissing is all the same..

a tight body can reflect on her life style and her face is something that can't be helped genetically but she can try to improve on it..but imagine a hot face on a smoker that doesn't eat or exercise properly and just has a rotting corpse of a physique, thats a huge turnoff.

Of course if your thinking about what your kids will look like your gonna want the total package, but if you had to choose one or the other, HOT BODY - so/so FACE !
 

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I used to think that it was face. But I find myself more attracted lately to girls with nice bodies as long as her face is alright. Especially as it gets warmer and they wear less clothes.
 

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i always thought the face is more important, coz it's the part of the body that i get to see in most part of the day, while her body can be easily concealed by smart fashion sense, custom-made clothes & magic accessories (ie. wonderbra, sillhuoette lingerie, high heels,etc)

after reading some of the posts here, i'm now converted & fully convinced that the body is more important. Coz a well-sculpted body is often the result of a woman's hard work & discipline in her exercise routine & diet regime, which deserve to be appreciated.

'there's no ugly woman, just lazy woman'
 

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Ok let's clear something up here:

Different guys don't have the same understanding of "decent body".

For most American guys, "decent body" = somewhat overweight, "hot body" = well, hot body...:whistle:

But for most other people, "hot body" = model look hot body, like tall (5'8+), athletic, long legs, well shaped and sized breasts and azz... "Decent body" = maybe not that tall 5'4 - 5'6, no model's leggy legs, ok sized boobs and azz, but in no way overweight. Otherwise it won't be "decent" body, but unattractive body.

I voted face over body without hesitation. But fatties are NOT even an option.:nono:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Gotta have both. No options.
 

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I'm under the impression that the girl WILL NOT FIX HER BODY, if thats the case then EVERYONE in their right mind will say, the FACE is more important because the body can be worked on.
 

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Where is the both option???
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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it depends what you mean by "decent"

"decent" face = fairly attractive, "hot" face = very attractive
"decent" body = fairly well shaped, "hot" body = very well shaped

To me, there's not much of a difference between "decent" and "hot", so I could even just go with a girl that has "decent" face and body, although I would prefer someone who's "hot"
 

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I honestly dont care if a girl dosent have the nicest face but to me a nice body is everything. I mean shure theres a limit but as long as shes somewhat cute and has a perfect figure im hooked. My motto is no fatties and no flatties.
 
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Face is more important because that's what most ppl will judge you by. If she has a hot face it's much better! look at Paris Hilton she's pretty but her body is around 6 and she's still popular. Also on the first few dates that's what you'll be kissing or making out with so you better be doing a hot face! Body shape and size can be changed too.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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