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Which one is more important?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Face or Body
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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The face to me is super important. I would take a pretty face over ass and boobs.
A pretty face and a good personality is what I look for, as long as she isn't overweight.
A pretty face and a good personality is what I look for, as long as she isn't overweight.
T Money
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word to that ntssv.
OfficeSpace
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hot face over hot body.. As long as her body is at least average... Not fat or too skinny..
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Drum&Bass
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I had this same talk with a female friend of mine...A HOT BODY IS WAYY BETTER, you can enjoy a girls body, its something that is real !
Everyone likes a pretty face to look at but imagine a pretty face with a scrawny or overweight body you'll have bad sex but a nice face smiling back at you, plus all you can do is kiss the lips on a face..if you got a pretty face or an ugly face the kissing is all the same..
a tight body can reflect on her life style and her face is something that can't be helped genetically but she can try to improve on it..but imagine a hot face on a smoker that doesn't eat or exercise properly and just has a rotting corpse of a physique, thats a huge turnoff.
Of course if your thinking about what your kids will look like your gonna want the total package, but if you had to choose one or the other, HOT BODY - so/so FACE !
Everyone likes a pretty face to look at but imagine a pretty face with a scrawny or overweight body you'll have bad sex but a nice face smiling back at you, plus all you can do is kiss the lips on a face..if you got a pretty face or an ugly face the kissing is all the same..
a tight body can reflect on her life style and her face is something that can't be helped genetically but she can try to improve on it..but imagine a hot face on a smoker that doesn't eat or exercise properly and just has a rotting corpse of a physique, thats a huge turnoff.
Of course if your thinking about what your kids will look like your gonna want the total package, but if you had to choose one or the other, HOT BODY - so/so FACE !
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I used to think that it was face. But I find myself more attracted lately to girls with nice bodies as long as her face is alright. Especially as it gets warmer and they wear less clothes.
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i always thought the face is more important, coz it's the part of the body that i get to see in most part of the day, while her body can be easily concealed by smart fashion sense, custom-made clothes & magic accessories (ie. wonderbra, sillhuoette lingerie, high heels,etc)
after reading some of the posts here, i'm now converted & fully convinced that the body is more important. Coz a well-sculpted body is often the result of a woman's hard work & discipline in her exercise routine & diet regime, which deserve to be appreciated.
'there's no ugly woman, just lazy woman'
after reading some of the posts here, i'm now converted & fully convinced that the body is more important. Coz a well-sculpted body is often the result of a woman's hard work & discipline in her exercise routine & diet regime, which deserve to be appreciated.
'there's no ugly woman, just lazy woman'
MetalFortress
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Hot face. A body is fixable; a face is not.
Le Parisien
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Ok let's clear something up here:
Different guys don't have the same understanding of "decent body".
For most American guys, "decent body" = somewhat overweight, "hot body" = well, hot body...
But for most other people, "hot body" = model look hot body, like tall (5'8+), athletic, long legs, well shaped and sized breasts and azz... "Decent body" = maybe not that tall 5'4 - 5'6, no model's leggy legs, ok sized boobs and azz, but in no way overweight. Otherwise it won't be "decent" body, but unattractive body.
I voted face over body without hesitation. But fatties are NOT even an option.:nono:
Different guys don't have the same understanding of "decent body".
For most American guys, "decent body" = somewhat overweight, "hot body" = well, hot body...
But for most other people, "hot body" = model look hot body, like tall (5'8+), athletic, long legs, well shaped and sized breasts and azz... "Decent body" = maybe not that tall 5'4 - 5'6, no model's leggy legs, ok sized boobs and azz, but in no way overweight. Otherwise it won't be "decent" body, but unattractive body.
I voted face over body without hesitation. But fatties are NOT even an option.:nono:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Gotta have both. No options.
brucevangeorge
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Exactly what I was going to say.MetalFortress said:
Tomatoes
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Where is the both option???
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a girl can lose weight, its hard for them to lose the ugly.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
keoss
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the same as I.MetalFortress said:
REJ-
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it depends what you mean by "decent"
"decent" face = fairly attractive, "hot" face = very attractive
"decent" body = fairly well shaped, "hot" body = very well shaped
To me, there's not much of a difference between "decent" and "hot", so I could even just go with a girl that has "decent" face and body, although I would prefer someone who's "hot"
"decent" face = fairly attractive, "hot" face = very attractive
"decent" body = fairly well shaped, "hot" body = very well shaped
To me, there's not much of a difference between "decent" and "hot", so I could even just go with a girl that has "decent" face and body, although I would prefer someone who's "hot"
girlsarecrazy
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I'm a skin fan. If they have good smooth tan skin... mmmmhhhh
BBX
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I honestly dont care if a girl dosent have the nicest face but to me a nice body is everything. I mean shure theres a limit but as long as shes somewhat cute and has a perfect figure im hooked. My motto is no fatties and no flatties.
PeterNorthisawesome
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Face is more important because that's what most ppl will judge you by. If she has a hot face it's much better! look at Paris Hilton she's pretty but her body is around 6 and she's still popular. Also on the first few dates that's what you'll be kissing or making out with so you better be doing a hot face! Body shape and size can be changed too.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.