You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Vague? How much more detail do you want me to get into? I wrote this up at 3am last night, because I was bored, drunk, and browsing this forum.L777 said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Keep posting some more field reports and don't worry about idiots like L777. He flames anyone he considers a threat. He has flamed me on numerous occasions. Its obvious from the way he posts has has subpar game and looks. He is just an annoying insecure little geek that doesn't get laid. If by hour you mean 5 minutes and by FB you mean your hand then I believe you.L777 said:Lol. I might be mildly insulted if you lot weren't such a prize set of muppets.
Anyway, off to see my French FB now. Want a LR? Here's a preview: She's a 9, I'm gonna walk into her room, say about two words and then fvck her for an hour then come back out and go to my media class.
Oh please sosuave muppets, love me!!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Step away from the keyboard.L777 said:Lol. I might be mildly insulted if you lot weren't such a prize set of muppets.
Anyway, off to see my French FB now. Want a LR? Here's a preview: She's a 9, I'm gonna walk into her room, say about two words and then fvck her for an hour then come back out and go to my media class.
Oh please sosuave muppets, love me!!
CuZzT said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How can something like that be determined?My Name is Nobody said:
There isn't one.. Do not listen to that weak minded gimp.. He is completely clueless and is spouting off bullsh!t. Look at the threads he creates. He is a failure.CuZzT said: