Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Vague? How much more detail do you want me to get into? I wrote this up at 3am last night, because I was bored, drunk, and browsing this forum.L777 said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Keep posting some more field reports and don't worry about idiots like L777. He flames anyone he considers a threat. He has flamed me on numerous occasions. Its obvious from the way he posts has has subpar game and looks. He is just an annoying insecure little geek that doesn't get laid. If by hour you mean 5 minutes and by FB you mean your hand then I believe you.L777 said:Lol. I might be mildly insulted if you lot weren't such a prize set of muppets.
Anyway, off to see my French FB now. Want a LR? Here's a preview: She's a 9, I'm gonna walk into her room, say about two words and then fvck her for an hour then come back out and go to my media class.
Oh please sosuave muppets, love me!!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Step away from the keyboard.L777 said:Lol. I might be mildly insulted if you lot weren't such a prize set of muppets.
Anyway, off to see my French FB now. Want a LR? Here's a preview: She's a 9, I'm gonna walk into her room, say about two words and then fvck her for an hour then come back out and go to my media class.
Oh please sosuave muppets, love me!!
CuZzT said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How can something like that be determined?My Name is Nobody said:
There isn't one.. Do not listen to that weak minded gimp.. He is completely clueless and is spouting off bullsh!t. Look at the threads he creates. He is a failure.CuZzT said: