"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"f" off in a nice way?? how so

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i think this would be a good thread for most DJ..

i just came back from my first date with a girl i met earlier this week.. and im not feeling the vibe for her so i just wanna cut her loose. but i dont wanna be mean,

should i just ignore all of her calls and make some bs up?

im not the type to tell girls that "i dont like you so stop calling me"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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at some point you're gonna end up having to say it one way or the other.
 
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I used this method to shoo away a girl I didn't like after first date.

She got me this shirt for a christmas gift (and I dunno why, she was being AFC and sh*t. pissed me off, but hey, I can't complain over a free shirt) and after I got it, I told her:

Me: Hey thanks for the shirt, but here's the real deal. I only see you as a friend, and nothing more. You show me all these mixed signals as if you still like me, and it's getting awkward. We're still friends though; doesn't mean we can't talk.

She didn't take it in a harsh manner, which is what I preferred anyway.

I say present your thoughts to her in a friendly, but serious tone. Contradicting, but use my example. Just be honest, and get it over with; you don't want a clingy AFC girl, trust me.
 
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