"f" off in a nice way?? how so

[sexy_kuta]

i think this would be a good thread for most DJ..

i just came back from my first date with a girl i met earlier this week.. and im not feeling the vibe for her so i just wanna cut her loose. but i dont wanna be mean,

should i just ignore all of her calls and make some bs up?

im not the type to tell girls that "i dont like you so stop calling me"

 

[So pimp its scary]

at some point you're gonna end up having to say it one way or the other.

 

[j8snx1]

I used this method to shoo away a girl I didn't like after first date.

She got me this shirt for a christmas gift (and I dunno why, she was being AFC and sh*t. pissed me off, but hey, I can't complain over a free shirt) and after I got it, I told her:

Me: Hey thanks for the shirt, but here's the real deal. I only see you as a friend, and nothing more. You show me all these mixed signals as if you still like me, and it's getting awkward. We're still friends though; doesn't mean we can't talk.

She didn't take it in a harsh manner, which is what I preferred anyway.

I say present your thoughts to her in a friendly, but serious tone. Contradicting, but use my example. Just be honest, and get it over with; you don't want a clingy AFC girl, trust me.