"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"f" off in a nice way?? how so

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i think this would be a good thread for most DJ..

i just came back from my first date with a girl i met earlier this week.. and im not feeling the vibe for her so i just wanna cut her loose. but i dont wanna be mean,

should i just ignore all of her calls and make some bs up?

im not the type to tell girls that "i dont like you so stop calling me"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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at some point you're gonna end up having to say it one way or the other.
 
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I used this method to shoo away a girl I didn't like after first date.

She got me this shirt for a christmas gift (and I dunno why, she was being AFC and sh*t. pissed me off, but hey, I can't complain over a free shirt) and after I got it, I told her:

Me: Hey thanks for the shirt, but here's the real deal. I only see you as a friend, and nothing more. You show me all these mixed signals as if you still like me, and it's getting awkward. We're still friends though; doesn't mean we can't talk.

She didn't take it in a harsh manner, which is what I preferred anyway.

I say present your thoughts to her in a friendly, but serious tone. Contradicting, but use my example. Just be honest, and get it over with; you don't want a clingy AFC girl, trust me.
 
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