"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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F--k Buddy with a BF

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I went out with an HB last night who I kinda dated a few years back. She now has a boyfriend who she claims to love. I never had and still don't have any intentions of ever getting serious with this girl, my intentions were just to bang her and she was totally willing to cooperate.

Anyway as soon as I pick her up she starts showing me all of the text from her BF checking up on her. At first she lied and said she was going to bed. I told her that's not cool she should tell him she's going out because we live in a small enough city that the odds of bumping into someone who knows someone who knows your BF or GF is very high.

So later she goes on to tell me that she loves her man because she has him trained like an obedient dog, whatever she does to him he'll always forgive her and be there for her. She says she could see herself marrying this guy but said anytime I want to sleep with her I can.

I asked her how she would feel if her BF acted the way she did and said that would never happen only she can cheat. She justifies her behavior by claiming to love her man and just wants variety. For whatever reason I kinda felt bad for her afc BF. He needs to find this site lol. So I didn't end up sleeping with her and honestly I'm glad.

I'm just curious is it possible for females to be committed to 1 person and sleep around indiscriminately without feelings getting involved the way guys can? She also showed vague signs of jealousy when I talked about other girls and she kept trying to peek at my phone every time I got a call or text. What's up with that?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes they can my friend. Women en up in relationships hoping to get something better in the future. I have never been with a single woman. I had women telling me how much they love their boyfriends while my fingers are inside of her and shes naked in my bed. ( ill never forget that) Thats why its so easy to have sex with them once u know the truth about women.

They love relationships with beta guys, but they love more the sex with
the alphas.
 

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What Spainlover said is the harsh reality of women and men. Humans are so selfish.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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They think they want someone that treats them like a princess.
But then , they go fvck someone that treats them like sh1t. They chase emotions. If you give them the emotions they want , the emotions that their boyfriend doesn't give they will sleep with you.

This is great thread for AFC's to learn that they might get lucky with a hot girlfriend , but while they are reading this , their girlfriend might be fvcking someone else. In relationship , they want a MAN. A alpha man. A man that when he says NO , its means NO. A man that will be willing to walk away from her. A man that doesnt respect her more then himself.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
They think they want someone that treats them like a princess.
But then , they go fvck someone that treats them like sh1t. They chase emotions. If you give them the emotions they want , the emotions that their boyfriend doesn't give they will sleep with you.

This is great thread for AFC's to learn that they might get lucky with a hot girlfriend , but while they are reading this , their girlfriend might be fvcking someone else. In relationship , they want a MAN. A alpha man. A man that when he says NO , its means NO. A man that will be willing to walk away from her. A man that doesnt respect her more then himself.
As usual, you hit the nail in the head DTP. This is 100% truth. HBs love to be in relationships with some beta guy who treats them like they're the last girl in the surface of the earth, but most of the time they are willing to **** a man who keeps them guessing and wanting more, an emotional rollercoaster if you will.

Never be the trained obedient dog, instead, let her be your *****. :up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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eaglez1177

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spainlover said:
Yes they can my friend. Women en up in relationships hoping to get something better in the future. I have never been with a single woman. I had women telling me how much they love their boyfriends while my fingers are inside of her and shes naked in my bed. ( ill never forget that) Thats why its so easy to have sex with them once u know the truth about women.

They love relationships with beta guys, but they love more the sex with
the alphas.
Sadly, this really is true about all women. I also believe that no man can ever be perfect, and can never truly be everything that a woman wants. Because of this, every man, no matter how comfortable and trustworthy of a relationship they may have, is always, ALWAYS susceptible to being cheated on.

You made a good decision not sleeping with that fvcking b*tch. Just think, how would you feel if your gf was cheating behind your back?
 

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I know a girl who's in a four-year relationship with a major AFC guy who cheats on him regularly...but she still goes on about how she loves him and wants to marry him. When I challenged her on this she said 'Oh, but it's not emotional cheating. That's the worst kind".

It's human nature. People do what they want and rationalize it later.
 

Speculator E

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spainlover said:
Yes they can my friend. Women en up in relationships hoping to get something better in the future. I have never been with a single woman. I had women telling me how much they love their boyfriends while my fingers are inside of her and shes naked in my bed. ( ill never forget that) Thats why its so easy to have sex with them once u know the truth about women.

They love relationships with beta guys, but they love more the sex with
the alphas.
Let me direct you to this thread I created:

Sexy Son Hypothesis - How Women Choose a Mate
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155143
 
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