"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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F--k Buddy with a BF

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I went out with an HB last night who I kinda dated a few years back. She now has a boyfriend who she claims to love. I never had and still don't have any intentions of ever getting serious with this girl, my intentions were just to bang her and she was totally willing to cooperate.

Anyway as soon as I pick her up she starts showing me all of the text from her BF checking up on her. At first she lied and said she was going to bed. I told her that's not cool she should tell him she's going out because we live in a small enough city that the odds of bumping into someone who knows someone who knows your BF or GF is very high.

So later she goes on to tell me that she loves her man because she has him trained like an obedient dog, whatever she does to him he'll always forgive her and be there for her. She says she could see herself marrying this guy but said anytime I want to sleep with her I can.

I asked her how she would feel if her BF acted the way she did and said that would never happen only she can cheat. She justifies her behavior by claiming to love her man and just wants variety. For whatever reason I kinda felt bad for her afc BF. He needs to find this site lol. So I didn't end up sleeping with her and honestly I'm glad.

I'm just curious is it possible for females to be committed to 1 person and sleep around indiscriminately without feelings getting involved the way guys can? She also showed vague signs of jealousy when I talked about other girls and she kept trying to peek at my phone every time I got a call or text. What's up with that?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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spainlover

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Yes they can my friend. Women en up in relationships hoping to get something better in the future. I have never been with a single woman. I had women telling me how much they love their boyfriends while my fingers are inside of her and shes naked in my bed. ( ill never forget that) Thats why its so easy to have sex with them once u know the truth about women.

They love relationships with beta guys, but they love more the sex with
the alphas.
 

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What Spainlover said is the harsh reality of women and men. Humans are so selfish.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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They think they want someone that treats them like a princess.
But then , they go fvck someone that treats them like sh1t. They chase emotions. If you give them the emotions they want , the emotions that their boyfriend doesn't give they will sleep with you.

This is great thread for AFC's to learn that they might get lucky with a hot girlfriend , but while they are reading this , their girlfriend might be fvcking someone else. In relationship , they want a MAN. A alpha man. A man that when he says NO , its means NO. A man that will be willing to walk away from her. A man that doesnt respect her more then himself.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
They think they want someone that treats them like a princess.
But then , they go fvck someone that treats them like sh1t. They chase emotions. If you give them the emotions they want , the emotions that their boyfriend doesn't give they will sleep with you.

This is great thread for AFC's to learn that they might get lucky with a hot girlfriend , but while they are reading this , their girlfriend might be fvcking someone else. In relationship , they want a MAN. A alpha man. A man that when he says NO , its means NO. A man that will be willing to walk away from her. A man that doesnt respect her more then himself.
As usual, you hit the nail in the head DTP. This is 100% truth. HBs love to be in relationships with some beta guy who treats them like they're the last girl in the surface of the earth, but most of the time they are willing to **** a man who keeps them guessing and wanting more, an emotional rollercoaster if you will.

Never be the trained obedient dog, instead, let her be your *****. :up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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eaglez1177

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spainlover said:
Yes they can my friend. Women en up in relationships hoping to get something better in the future. I have never been with a single woman. I had women telling me how much they love their boyfriends while my fingers are inside of her and shes naked in my bed. ( ill never forget that) Thats why its so easy to have sex with them once u know the truth about women.

They love relationships with beta guys, but they love more the sex with
the alphas.
Sadly, this really is true about all women. I also believe that no man can ever be perfect, and can never truly be everything that a woman wants. Because of this, every man, no matter how comfortable and trustworthy of a relationship they may have, is always, ALWAYS susceptible to being cheated on.

You made a good decision not sleeping with that fvcking b*tch. Just think, how would you feel if your gf was cheating behind your back?
 

Leporello

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I know a girl who's in a four-year relationship with a major AFC guy who cheats on him regularly...but she still goes on about how she loves him and wants to marry him. When I challenged her on this she said 'Oh, but it's not emotional cheating. That's the worst kind".

It's human nature. People do what they want and rationalize it later.
 

Speculator E

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spainlover said:
Yes they can my friend. Women en up in relationships hoping to get something better in the future. I have never been with a single woman. I had women telling me how much they love their boyfriends while my fingers are inside of her and shes naked in my bed. ( ill never forget that) Thats why its so easy to have sex with them once u know the truth about women.

They love relationships with beta guys, but they love more the sex with
the alphas.
Let me direct you to this thread I created:

Sexy Son Hypothesis - How Women Choose a Mate
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155143
 
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