Target_100
Senior Don Juan
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Has anyone done it? And if so, how?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Totally agree.Prodigy746 said:Not sure why anyone would want to f close a virgin.... that cant be fun as you have to be very gentle...
If i have one night stands or a fling i want it to be with a experienced girl. If it is a wifey material than virgin is ok.
I agree with the two of you. My first experience was with a virgin, and since I was a virgin myself too, that was completely fine! In fact, I think that's how it's supposed to go, as you both can find out what works and what doesn't.Tesl said:Totally agree.
I've been with 2 virgins and its nowhere near as good as someone who has some more experience. I really don't get some peoples obsessions with chasing virgins (maybe that's just because I've already done it...)
There's a song about that:SandHawk said:I fingered her and stopped her from jacking me off, because they way she attempted that, it felt like she tried to rip of my c*ck!