"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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F-closing a virgin HB6 or better after you have turned 25?

Target_100

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Has anyone done it? And if so, how?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Easy, hang out at Jr. High's....lol

Seriously, with most girls losing their virginity at 15-16 getting a virgin when you're over 18 is about as likely as getting struck by lightning.

You can try meeting girls at church but that's also a gamble that they'd be a virgin.

At my age I'll probably never sleep with a virgin. Though I will accomplish my goal of sleeping with a teenager 18-19 before I die.
 

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I got a 19 year old hottie the other day. It was cool but I have this weird obsession with f-closing a virgin...
 

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I f-closed a 21 y/o cute virgin a couple of weeks ago. It is in my approach journal. First, it was pure luck. Second, she was out of town and here on Spring Break. Third, compliments worked like a charm on her. Fourth, she was drunk. And last but not least... she was the worst kisser and worst lay ever! My first virgin, and it was way overrated.
 

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Not sure why anyone would want to f close a virgin.... that cant be fun as you have to be very gentle...

If i have one night stands or a fling i want it to be with a experienced girl. If it is a wifey material than virgin is ok.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Prodigy746 said:
Not sure why anyone would want to f close a virgin.... that cant be fun as you have to be very gentle...

If i have one night stands or a fling i want it to be with a experienced girl. If it is a wifey material than virgin is ok.
Totally agree.

I've been with 2 virgins and its nowhere near as good as someone who has some more experience. I really don't get some peoples obsessions with chasing virgins (maybe that's just because I've already done it...)
 

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Tesl said:
Totally agree.

I've been with 2 virgins and its nowhere near as good as someone who has some more experience. I really don't get some peoples obsessions with chasing virgins (maybe that's just because I've already done it...)
I agree with the two of you. My first experience was with a virgin, and since I was a virgin myself too, that was completely fine! In fact, I think that's how it's supposed to go, as you both can find out what works and what doesn't.

I've had a 23 year old virgin a while back, didn't know she was a virgin, and while I didn't take her v-card(Extremely shy and terrible kisser, unwilling to learn too), I fingered her and stopped her from jacking me off, because they way she attempted that, it felt like she tried to rip of my c*ck!
 

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But I just want to f*** a virgin!!!

(Crying)
 
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