"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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heater528

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Well here is the story i met this chick about a 8-8.5 tall blonde, the only flaw with her is that her nose is big. We met last week at a bar. Get the number and randomly text her like 3 days later. She has me come down to her friends place and we all go out 2 nights ago. Turns out me and her end up doing the deed. I give her a call the next day, she says she had fun and i say the same... Get off the phone because im at work and cant be talking on the phone. She texts me like 10 minutes later, asking to hang out again on Monday. I say im not sure whats going on monday she continues to text me random **** thru my 8 hour shift. Today i woke up with a voicemail on my phone seeing what im up to tonight. My question is i def do not want to become serious with one chick... and her actions are making me feel somewhat trapped. How do you guys deal with a girl like this. Ive read tons of posts on how to get chicks, and get them to lay you but how do you handle them once mission is accomplished.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Borgon

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When i first talk to a female, i try to find out first what is she looking for and then i lay out my terms. Tell her that you like being single, and you arent looking for anything serious.
 

spider_007

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you have to let them know you are not looking for anything serious BEFORE you lay them.

this way she doesn't call you a lyer, starts stalking you and telling **** about you to your/her friends...

the only thing you can do now is have a talk with her about "where this is going" or cut all contact.
 

heater528

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I agree i sort of f'd up the whole thing. I should have let her know before hand that i am not looking for something exclusive. It has seemed though that every single girl ive met has been looking for relationships.
 
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