"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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heater528

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Well here is the story i met this chick about a 8-8.5 tall blonde, the only flaw with her is that her nose is big. We met last week at a bar. Get the number and randomly text her like 3 days later. She has me come down to her friends place and we all go out 2 nights ago. Turns out me and her end up doing the deed. I give her a call the next day, she says she had fun and i say the same... Get off the phone because im at work and cant be talking on the phone. She texts me like 10 minutes later, asking to hang out again on Monday. I say im not sure whats going on monday she continues to text me random **** thru my 8 hour shift. Today i woke up with a voicemail on my phone seeing what im up to tonight. My question is i def do not want to become serious with one chick... and her actions are making me feel somewhat trapped. How do you guys deal with a girl like this. Ive read tons of posts on how to get chicks, and get them to lay you but how do you handle them once mission is accomplished.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When i first talk to a female, i try to find out first what is she looking for and then i lay out my terms. Tell her that you like being single, and you arent looking for anything serious.
 

spider_007

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you have to let them know you are not looking for anything serious BEFORE you lay them.

this way she doesn't call you a lyer, starts stalking you and telling **** about you to your/her friends...

the only thing you can do now is have a talk with her about "where this is going" or cut all contact.
 

heater528

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I agree i sort of f'd up the whole thing. I should have let her know before hand that i am not looking for something exclusive. It has seemed though that every single girl ive met has been looking for relationships.
 
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