"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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heater528

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Well here is the story i met this chick about a 8-8.5 tall blonde, the only flaw with her is that her nose is big. We met last week at a bar. Get the number and randomly text her like 3 days later. She has me come down to her friends place and we all go out 2 nights ago. Turns out me and her end up doing the deed. I give her a call the next day, she says she had fun and i say the same... Get off the phone because im at work and cant be talking on the phone. She texts me like 10 minutes later, asking to hang out again on Monday. I say im not sure whats going on monday she continues to text me random **** thru my 8 hour shift. Today i woke up with a voicemail on my phone seeing what im up to tonight. My question is i def do not want to become serious with one chick... and her actions are making me feel somewhat trapped. How do you guys deal with a girl like this. Ive read tons of posts on how to get chicks, and get them to lay you but how do you handle them once mission is accomplished.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Borgon

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When i first talk to a female, i try to find out first what is she looking for and then i lay out my terms. Tell her that you like being single, and you arent looking for anything serious.
 

spider_007

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you have to let them know you are not looking for anything serious BEFORE you lay them.

this way she doesn't call you a lyer, starts stalking you and telling **** about you to your/her friends...

the only thing you can do now is have a talk with her about "where this is going" or cut all contact.
 

heater528

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I agree i sort of f'd up the whole thing. I should have let her know before hand that i am not looking for something exclusive. It has seemed though that every single girl ive met has been looking for relationships.
 
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