"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Congrats on the squat PR and good to see your deadlifting now. How are they feeling?

As far as a powerlifting meet, is it a actual meet like USAPL,APA,APF... is it Multiply, Single ply or Raw?

Or is it just some friendly competition between co-workers?

Either way your first attempt should be something fairly easy - something you can do for a triple. Your second attempt can be your current gym max and if you want to take the third attempt you can aim for a PR.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Krueg said:
Congrats on the squat PR and good to see your deadlifting now. How are they feeling?

As far as a powerlifting meet, is it a actual meet like USAPL,APA,APF... is it Multiply, Single ply or Raw?

Or is it just some friendly competition between co-workers?

Either way your first attempt should be something fairly easy - something you can do for a triple. Your second attempt can be your current gym max and if you want to take the third attempt you can aim for a PR.
well its just a friendly match between different departments at work.
i dont know the details of the meet though.
and yeah i started deadlifting since i felt it was time to lose my deadlift-virginity :D
 

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Youre doing well buddy. nice weight for squat pr :D
 

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Purefilth said:
Youre doing well buddy. nice weight for squat pr :D
thanks , im going to try and see if i can charge 10 feet in 1 second later on ;)

tue deadlift

50X1
50X1
60X1
80X1
80X1
85X1
90X1
90X1 FAIL
90X1
100X1 FAIL
95X1 FAIL
90X1
80X1
80X1
80X1
50X1
lat downs, biceps and forearms

wed BENCH

40X5
50X5X2
60X5
70X3
75X1
80X1
85X1
90X1
90X1
90X1
80X1
80X3
50X10X3 (really fast)
triceps
biceps
lat pull downs
pull ups
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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well you hit 100 on squat - good work man
 

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Purefilth said:
well you hit 100 on squat - good work man
Gotta agree with Pure. Also I like the fact you tried a second attempt, shows you got heart!
 

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Purefilth said:
well you hit 100 on squat - good work man
Krueg said:
Gotta agree with Pure. Also I like the fact you tried a second attempt, shows you got heart!

thanks a lot guys been trying to improve my PRs and hope to get 110 on the squats this friday :up:

mon - deadlifts

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cardio
 

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Don't worry too much about singles and PR's. Save that for competition.
You mainly want to build strength in the gym and then test your strength on the platform or at the end of the month or cycle. Just my 2 cents.
 

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Don't worry too much about singles and PR's. Save that for competition.
You mainly want to build strength in the gym and then test your strength on the platform or at the end of the month or cycle. Just my 2 cents.
I'm not gonna argue here because I've never competed, and don't plan to, but just asking, wouldn't it be beneficial to do a max test every week or two? I would think that it would be good for the nervous system to get used to handling heavy (maximal) weight.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheStig said:
I'm not gonna argue here because I've never competed, and don't plan to, but just asking, wouldn't it be beneficial to do a max test every week or two? I would think that it would be good for the nervous system to get used to handling heavy (maximal) weight.
Sorry Switch, don't mean to "Hijack"


I think its okay to test your max here and there and add some singles to get use to heavier weight. Though its always good to get some rep work in to build up some strength to build upon reaching that new 1RM. I hear some strength coaches say you can loose strength working at 90% or above for two - three weeks in a row... Food for thought
 

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Sorry Switch, don't mean to "Hijack"


I think its okay to test your max here and there and add some singles to get use to heavier weight. Though its always good to get some rep work in to build up some strength to build upon reaching that new 1RM. I hear some strength coaches say you can loose strength working at 90% or above for two - three weeks in a row... Food for thought
Haha I guess that's my fault.

And that bold part makes sense now that I think about it...it could be the reason why I'm at a plateau as far as 1RM on bench for the last 2 weeks, although my rep work has certainly been steadily improving with no signs of slowing.
 

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ok as you have noticed ive been absent at the gym for a while reason is that on thursday i had a swelling in my right hand ,which decided to become cellulitis and consequently septicemia(blood infection) so then i had a surgery under general anaesthesia, which then needed amission and omg its sucha fawking headache now....

anyway ill be training from sunday,but i cant use my right hand so i dont know what to do :( no bench press, no deads but i can do squats i guess, so that more than enough....if i can squat im happy :D

btw good discussion krueg and stig
 

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mon deadlifts

50X5
70X3
80X3
chin ups
pull ups
lat pull down

didnt want to put too much pressure on my hand so left the gym a bit early
 

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Good to see you put in the effort.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good to see you at it man.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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