"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Eyes

Darth

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So today I go up to the counter and smile, making eye contact with the checker. And she tells me I have really pretty eyes. Then she says, "Very sexy."

This took me off guard because a few weeks ago, another girl I didn't even know said the exact same thing, that I had really pretty eyes. "Very deep. Deep blue" she said.

Now obviously this is not a bad thing, but I'm just curious, have any of you gotten this type of comment, and if so, do you think it's physical, or just the fact that you made eye contact with them. Is it an honest comment, or just a come-on? It's hard to tell sometimes...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I thought this was going to be another


( . Y . ) These are not the eyes topic.

Anyways, to the point, cool man. Lucky, now don't be caught off gaurd by it again and get a friggen number or something.
 

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OK, I was just wondering because I thought that girls didn't focus on physical traits as much, so it seemed to me more a flirting move than an actual compliment, but the fact that it happened twice makes me wonder...


"Anyways, to the point, cool man. Lucky, now don't be caught off gaurd by it again and get a friggen number or something."

Amen dude:)

Edit: Actually, the next time a girl says that, I should just go, "Thank you! Is there a number I can reach you at?"

Bam!

If she refuses, I can joke my way out of it.
 

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dont worry about it bru.its a good thing i get that alot about my lips.
you ever notice girls tellin you how lucky you are to have nice eyelashes?
now that sh!ts annoyin..i always end that convo with
"oh yeh...you cant have my eyelashes but you can get to kno them better if you put ur number in my phone"...sometimes it works..sometimes they laugh and walk away.lol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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slickaz said:
you ever notice girls tellin you how lucky you are to have nice eyelashes?
Yeah, actually. Forgot to add that part.
 
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