"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So today I go up to the counter and smile, making eye contact with the checker. And she tells me I have really pretty eyes. Then she says, "Very sexy."

This took me off guard because a few weeks ago, another girl I didn't even know said the exact same thing, that I had really pretty eyes. "Very deep. Deep blue" she said.

Now obviously this is not a bad thing, but I'm just curious, have any of you gotten this type of comment, and if so, do you think it's physical, or just the fact that you made eye contact with them. Is it an honest comment, or just a come-on? It's hard to tell sometimes...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I thought this was going to be another


( . Y . ) These are not the eyes topic.

Anyways, to the point, cool man. Lucky, now don't be caught off gaurd by it again and get a friggen number or something.
 

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OK, I was just wondering because I thought that girls didn't focus on physical traits as much, so it seemed to me more a flirting move than an actual compliment, but the fact that it happened twice makes me wonder...


"Anyways, to the point, cool man. Lucky, now don't be caught off gaurd by it again and get a friggen number or something."

Amen dude:)

Edit: Actually, the next time a girl says that, I should just go, "Thank you! Is there a number I can reach you at?"

Bam!

If she refuses, I can joke my way out of it.
 

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dont worry about it bru.its a good thing i get that alot about my lips.
you ever notice girls tellin you how lucky you are to have nice eyelashes?
now that sh!ts annoyin..i always end that convo with
"oh yeh...you cant have my eyelashes but you can get to kno them better if you put ur number in my phone"...sometimes it works..sometimes they laugh and walk away.lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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slickaz said:
you ever notice girls tellin you how lucky you are to have nice eyelashes?
Yeah, actually. Forgot to add that part.
 
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