"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Eyes

Darth

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So today I go up to the counter and smile, making eye contact with the checker. And she tells me I have really pretty eyes. Then she says, "Very sexy."

This took me off guard because a few weeks ago, another girl I didn't even know said the exact same thing, that I had really pretty eyes. "Very deep. Deep blue" she said.

Now obviously this is not a bad thing, but I'm just curious, have any of you gotten this type of comment, and if so, do you think it's physical, or just the fact that you made eye contact with them. Is it an honest comment, or just a come-on? It's hard to tell sometimes...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I thought this was going to be another


( . Y . ) These are not the eyes topic.

Anyways, to the point, cool man. Lucky, now don't be caught off gaurd by it again and get a friggen number or something.
 

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OK, I was just wondering because I thought that girls didn't focus on physical traits as much, so it seemed to me more a flirting move than an actual compliment, but the fact that it happened twice makes me wonder...


"Anyways, to the point, cool man. Lucky, now don't be caught off gaurd by it again and get a friggen number or something."

Amen dude:)

Edit: Actually, the next time a girl says that, I should just go, "Thank you! Is there a number I can reach you at?"

Bam!

If she refuses, I can joke my way out of it.
 

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dont worry about it bru.its a good thing i get that alot about my lips.
you ever notice girls tellin you how lucky you are to have nice eyelashes?
now that sh!ts annoyin..i always end that convo with
"oh yeh...you cant have my eyelashes but you can get to kno them better if you put ur number in my phone"...sometimes it works..sometimes they laugh and walk away.lol.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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slickaz said:
you ever notice girls tellin you how lucky you are to have nice eyelashes?
Yeah, actually. Forgot to add that part.
 
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