what do yuo do when your eyes meet with another girl's? it seems to happen a lot to me and most the time i look away cause idk what else i should do..it happens most when im working at the restruant i work at,i bus tables and make eye contact with a lot of people but idk,i just tend to look away and look like im busy haha. but in general what do you do when you make eye contact with a random girl?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Eye Contact
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I agree since you are working at a resturant they will think that you are busy and if you go over and talk to them they will be like totally into you. Everybody likes the waiter or bus boy that has time to talk to them. Of course I would only talk with them to improve my skills.
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
Hold eye contact, and after a short while (as in when you would normally look away), smile. If she's interested, she'll smile back. That's your cue to initiate a conversation.
Stratocaster
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Always hold the eye contact into the 'uncomfortable zone' until she looks away. This establishes that you are not a little b!tch.
Smiling is also good.
Smiling is also good.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
UltimateScoundrel
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I know a few people who hold eyecontact for way too long. It's not impressive, just creepy.
Look at her, smile, maybe nod a bit, and get back to work. Don't stare her down.
ight man! well first off you are suppose to be the last one who holds the eye contact!!! remeber this...chumps look down(because there daseled by there beauty) so just hold eye contact! and if she stairs at you then look around her....then find your way back to looking at her....if she is still looking back! then she definity wants u...so walk over there and start some convo! trust me...it will be a brease!.. good luck man
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You want to avoid eye contact at all possible costs. Looking someone in the eye only means one thing. It means you're ready to throw hands. If you look at any part of the body except for directly at the eyes, you'll come off as someone who isn't interested in her body. Women are self consious of their bodies. Moreso that their face.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
dont stare her down like a starving wolf at a lamb, that creeps them out
look over, eye contact, eye contact returned, smile, smile returned (or not) maintain eyecontact while returning to what your doing, break eye contact
approach when you have the time
look over, eye contact, eye contact returned, smile, smile returned (or not) maintain eyecontact while returning to what your doing, break eye contact
approach when you have the time
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
buddy, your a joke
read the bible before you post again
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.