"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Eye Contact

LearningSlowly

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animebuck2 said:
wow ^-^ didnt know id get that kind of response from tellin that im a girl.....but actually......im not the prettiest girl....so if u saw me then who knows if yall would be sayin that
lol ew.

Do you bake and smoke weed? There might still be a chance for you
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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animebuck2 said:
well thats not nice.....maybe thats why u need advice on here jk
If you don't bake no man will ever love you. How's that for advice?

Go make a cake.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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random moment time:!!!!! banana phone! boop boop ba doop ee doop hahhaha .......... >.<
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I though that girls were more mature, but I was wrong lool

I think that getting used to hold eye contact is a good way to start if you're a complete noob. I used to do that to randomies across the room and it made me feel more confident. Girls were more receptive. They would smile sometimes, look at me up and down.
 

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eye contact is a powerfull stuff actually... recently I've approached a group of girls two years younger than me at my school... I've just joked with them and was focused on one of them... well I met her the next day again but I was just passing by and I told her something that was related to the things I joked about... well anyway I've run onto her later again and she didn't seem very receptive of me but I just keept looking at her while she was passing by me and when she was close to me she looked to my eyes I was smiling at her... since then whenever she is passing me by she is looking at me and smiling... I did the same thing with other girl too and the outcome is basically the same... the only downside is that they are both girls from my school and I really don't want to **** in my own bed so I'm not going to try to make them go out with me or anything but it's still a good practice...
 

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NobodyCares1 said:
eye contact is a powerfull stuff actually... recently I've approached a group of girls two years younger than me at my school... I've just joked with them and was focused on one of them... well I met her the next day again but I was just passing by and I told her something that was related to the things I joked about... well anyway I've run onto her later again and she didn't seem very receptive of me but I just keept looking at her while she was passing by me and when she was close to me she looked to my eyes I was smiling at her... since then whenever she is passing me by she is looking at me and smiling... I did the same thing with other girl too and the outcome is basically the same... the only downside is that they are both girls from my school and I really don't want to **** in my own bed so I'm not going to try to make them go out with me or anything but it's still a good practice...
Yeah, especially when you're pretty close to her. Sounds cool.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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