LearningSlowly
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lol ew.animebuck2 said:
Do you bake and smoke weed? There might still be a chance for you
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Do you bake and smoke weed? There might still be a chance for you
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
animebuck2
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well thats not nice.....maybe thats why u need advice on here jk
LearningSlowly
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If you don't bake no man will ever love you. How's that for advice?animebuck2 said:
Go make a cake.
Jack Wealthy
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Woah man. That crossed a line.
lol not really but I'd prefer cookies. And head.
lol not really but I'd prefer cookies. And head.
animebuck2
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now how many girls do u think would like u if u said that to them?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Jack Wealthy
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Quite a lot actually. You should read my journal.animebuck2 said:
Hi there. I'm kinda new to this forum. How's everyone?
By the way, all I know about eye contact is that you should never make it while eating a banana.
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By the way, all I know about eye contact is that you should never make it while eating a banana.
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The last two replies made my day
animebuck2
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random moment time:!!!!! banana phone! boop boop ba doop ee doop hahhaha .......... >.<
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I though that girls were more mature, but I was wrong lool
I think that getting used to hold eye contact is a good way to start if you're a complete noob. I used to do that to randomies across the room and it made me feel more confident. Girls were more receptive. They would smile sometimes, look at me up and down.
I think that getting used to hold eye contact is a good way to start if you're a complete noob. I used to do that to randomies across the room and it made me feel more confident. Girls were more receptive. They would smile sometimes, look at me up and down.
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eye contact is a powerfull stuff actually... recently I've approached a group of girls two years younger than me at my school... I've just joked with them and was focused on one of them... well I met her the next day again but I was just passing by and I told her something that was related to the things I joked about... well anyway I've run onto her later again and she didn't seem very receptive of me but I just keept looking at her while she was passing by me and when she was close to me she looked to my eyes I was smiling at her... since then whenever she is passing me by she is looking at me and smiling... I did the same thing with other girl too and the outcome is basically the same... the only downside is that they are both girls from my school and I really don't want to **** in my own bed so I'm not going to try to make them go out with me or anything but it's still a good practice...
animebuck2
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growing older is mandatory but growing up is optional
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.