"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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animebuck2 said:
wow ^-^ didnt know id get that kind of response from tellin that im a girl.....but actually......im not the prettiest girl....so if u saw me then who knows if yall would be sayin that
lol ew.

Do you bake and smoke weed? There might still be a chance for you
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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animebuck2 said:
well thats not nice.....maybe thats why u need advice on here jk
If you don't bake no man will ever love you. How's that for advice?

Go make a cake.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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random moment time:!!!!! banana phone! boop boop ba doop ee doop hahhaha .......... >.<
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I though that girls were more mature, but I was wrong lool

I think that getting used to hold eye contact is a good way to start if you're a complete noob. I used to do that to randomies across the room and it made me feel more confident. Girls were more receptive. They would smile sometimes, look at me up and down.
 

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eye contact is a powerfull stuff actually... recently I've approached a group of girls two years younger than me at my school... I've just joked with them and was focused on one of them... well I met her the next day again but I was just passing by and I told her something that was related to the things I joked about... well anyway I've run onto her later again and she didn't seem very receptive of me but I just keept looking at her while she was passing by me and when she was close to me she looked to my eyes I was smiling at her... since then whenever she is passing me by she is looking at me and smiling... I did the same thing with other girl too and the outcome is basically the same... the only downside is that they are both girls from my school and I really don't want to **** in my own bed so I'm not going to try to make them go out with me or anything but it's still a good practice...
 

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NobodyCares1 said:
eye contact is a powerfull stuff actually... recently I've approached a group of girls two years younger than me at my school... I've just joked with them and was focused on one of them... well I met her the next day again but I was just passing by and I told her something that was related to the things I joked about... well anyway I've run onto her later again and she didn't seem very receptive of me but I just keept looking at her while she was passing by me and when she was close to me she looked to my eyes I was smiling at her... since then whenever she is passing me by she is looking at me and smiling... I did the same thing with other girl too and the outcome is basically the same... the only downside is that they are both girls from my school and I really don't want to **** in my own bed so I'm not going to try to make them go out with me or anything but it's still a good practice...
Yeah, especially when you're pretty close to her. Sounds cool.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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