"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I was talking to this girl earlier, and I noticed she was doing different things. During the conversation she would look off, stare at the floor and play with her eyebrows. I know she was paying attention because she would respond in a manner that showed she was interested in what I was saying. Thowing in her own input and suggestions and laughing when I would say something funny. She always waves when she sees me and will occasionally stop me to talk. What does everyone else think? Think she's interested?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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While you're talking she stares at the floor and looks off at other things?

Yep, she sounds REALLY interested in what you're saying...
 

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It's impossible to tell for sure. I see several scenarios: 1) she's nervous around you because she likes you 2) she's shy and afraid of giving eye contact 3) she's simply uninterested. Of course there could be more reasons as well.

You say she waves at you and occasionally stops to talk, but really, she could just see you as a friend. Just because a girl shows you interest does not mean she wants to fck you. But I wasn't there so I can't tell how she does it. It's always possible that she is in fact interested in you.
 

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There's this one girl, that every time I see her, I wave, and she sticks up her middle finger, mouths the words "**** off and die you mother****er", and gestures in a slit throat manner.
Do you think she wants me?
 

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Rocker said:
There's this one girl, that every time I see her, I wave, and she sticks up her middle finger, mouths the words "**** off and die you mother****er", and gestures in a slit throat manner.
Do you think she wants me?
ROFLMAO!!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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