"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I was talking to this girl earlier, and I noticed she was doing different things. During the conversation she would look off, stare at the floor and play with her eyebrows. I know she was paying attention because she would respond in a manner that showed she was interested in what I was saying. Thowing in her own input and suggestions and laughing when I would say something funny. She always waves when she sees me and will occasionally stop me to talk. What does everyone else think? Think she's interested?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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While you're talking she stares at the floor and looks off at other things?

Yep, she sounds REALLY interested in what you're saying...
 
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It's impossible to tell for sure. I see several scenarios: 1) she's nervous around you because she likes you 2) she's shy and afraid of giving eye contact 3) she's simply uninterested. Of course there could be more reasons as well.

You say she waves at you and occasionally stops to talk, but really, she could just see you as a friend. Just because a girl shows you interest does not mean she wants to fck you. But I wasn't there so I can't tell how she does it. It's always possible that she is in fact interested in you.
 
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There's this one girl, that every time I see her, I wave, and she sticks up her middle finger, mouths the words "**** off and die you mother****er", and gestures in a slit throat manner.
Do you think she wants me?
 
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Rocker said:
There's this one girl, that every time I see her, I wave, and she sticks up her middle finger, mouths the words "**** off and die you mother****er", and gestures in a slit throat manner.
Do you think she wants me?
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ROFLMAO!!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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