I was talking to this girl earlier, and I noticed she was doing different things. During the conversation she would look off, stare at the floor and play with her eyebrows. I know she was paying attention because she would respond in a manner that showed she was interested in what I was saying. Thowing in her own input and suggestions and laughing when I would say something funny. She always waves when she sees me and will occasionally stop me to talk. What does everyone else think? Think she's interested?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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