I was talking to this girl earlier, and I noticed she was doing different things. During the conversation she would look off, stare at the floor and play with her eyebrows. I know she was paying attention because she would respond in a manner that showed she was interested in what I was saying. Thowing in her own input and suggestions and laughing when I would say something funny. She always waves when she sees me and will occasionally stop me to talk. What does everyone else think? Think she's interested?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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