"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Eye contact with a woman when she's with another man...

FM 3321

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I've been working on developing the habit of keeping eye contact with girls until they smile or look away and now it's starting to come natural to me. Sometimes I have to consciously think of it like when I'm at work, a gorgeous female is walking down the hall...I make sure to look, keep eye contact and say "hi."


Now I wonder how to handle it if she's with a guy. I was walking into a convenient store and there was this gorgeous girl sitting in her car but as I kept looking I noticed she was sitting with a guy and I looked away.


How does eye contact work in these situations? It's like a habit I'm trying to work on for a situation if a girl seems to be with her man. It might seem kinda trivial but I want to see what you guys think about this.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by FM 3321
I've been working on developing the habit of keeping eye contact with girls until they smile or look away and now it's starting to come natural to me. Sometimes I have to consciously think of it like when I'm at work, a gorgeous female is walking down the hall...I make sure to look, keep eye contact and say "hi."


Now I wonder how to handle it if she's with a guy. I was walking into a convenient store and there was this gorgeous girl sitting in her car but as I kept looking I noticed she was sitting with a guy and I looked away.


How does eye contact work in these situations? It's like a habit I'm trying to work on for a situation if a girl seems to be with her man. It might seem kinda trivial but I want to see what you guys think about this.
are u trying to learn how to win staring contests....... wow u gonna be real ALPHA when u the last person to look away with your big smile.
 

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Please do not ask trivial and obnoxiously theroetical questions like this unless you actually plan to date her or have her number at least.
 

FM 3321

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
are u trying to learn how to win staring contests....... wow u gonna be real ALPHA when u the last person to look away with your big smile.
Yeah, it looks like that's what I'm trying to do. It does seem kinda dumb and trivial when you really look at it.




Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
Please do not ask trivial and obnoxiously theroetical questions like this unless you actually plan to date her or have her number at least.

That makes sense. I guess you're saying why worry about this issue if nothing's gonna come out of it either way. Point taken.
 

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Don't do it bro.

I did that one time a looong time ago and almost got in a fight with two gang bangers

Even if she is trying to make heavy eye contact she just might, just might want her BF to get jealous and try to beat your azz. You know? Just want to see two Men fighting each other over her. :down:

So if you don't want to start shyt then don't unless you’re prepared to throw down.

Oh and even if you are successful in getting her why would you? If she was so willing to leave her man for you then what makes you think she won't do it to you?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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its easy, when they're looking in your direction look into their eyes, they'll look back.

Ive been doing it so often it's easy cause i know nothing's gonna come out of it anyway. Besides i get off lucky cause usually the bf doesnt even know.

it feels good after doing it
 
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