"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FM 3321

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I've been working on developing the habit of keeping eye contact with girls until they smile or look away and now it's starting to come natural to me. Sometimes I have to consciously think of it like when I'm at work, a gorgeous female is walking down the hall...I make sure to look, keep eye contact and say "hi."


Now I wonder how to handle it if she's with a guy. I was walking into a convenient store and there was this gorgeous girl sitting in her car but as I kept looking I noticed she was sitting with a guy and I looked away.


How does eye contact work in these situations? It's like a habit I'm trying to work on for a situation if a girl seems to be with her man. It might seem kinda trivial but I want to see what you guys think about this.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by FM 3321
I've been working on developing the habit of keeping eye contact with girls until they smile or look away and now it's starting to come natural to me. Sometimes I have to consciously think of it like when I'm at work, a gorgeous female is walking down the hall...I make sure to look, keep eye contact and say "hi."


Now I wonder how to handle it if she's with a guy. I was walking into a convenient store and there was this gorgeous girl sitting in her car but as I kept looking I noticed she was sitting with a guy and I looked away.


How does eye contact work in these situations? It's like a habit I'm trying to work on for a situation if a girl seems to be with her man. It might seem kinda trivial but I want to see what you guys think about this.
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are u trying to learn how to win staring contests....... wow u gonna be real ALPHA when u the last person to look away with your big smile.
 
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Please do not ask trivial and obnoxiously theroetical questions like this unless you actually plan to date her or have her number at least.
 
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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
are u trying to learn how to win staring contests....... wow u gonna be real ALPHA when u the last person to look away with your big smile.
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Yeah, it looks like that's what I'm trying to do. It does seem kinda dumb and trivial when you really look at it.




Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
Please do not ask trivial and obnoxiously theroetical questions like this unless you actually plan to date her or have her number at least.
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That makes sense. I guess you're saying why worry about this issue if nothing's gonna come out of it either way. Point taken.
 
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Don't do it bro.

I did that one time a looong time ago and almost got in a fight with two gang bangers

Even if she is trying to make heavy eye contact she just might, just might want her BF to get jealous and try to beat your azz. You know? Just want to see two Men fighting each other over her. :down:

So if you don't want to start shyt then don't unless you’re prepared to throw down.

Oh and even if you are successful in getting her why would you? If she was so willing to leave her man for you then what makes you think she won't do it to you?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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its easy, when they're looking in your direction look into their eyes, they'll look back.

Ive been doing it so often it's easy cause i know nothing's gonna come out of it anyway. Besides i get off lucky cause usually the bf doesnt even know.

it feels good after doing it
 
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