"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Eye contact - just wondering

johnmich

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If you are looking at a girl, and you want to make eye contact, and she then looks at you and sees you looking at her.

If she doesnt know you, isnt there a chance she thinks you are creepy and staring at her?

i got this feeling from someone the other day and just wondered.

Its probably jus me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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exactly -

you got to smile as soon as the eye contact has been made. If you wait a moment to long it will look creepy
 

johnmich

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ah, thast probably it, i forget to do it as im not always concentrating
 

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Usually a quick up-and-down raise of the eyebrows when you do the initial start of the smile helps smooth it over, and if she likes you generate interest, therefore stimulating attraction.
 
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